Wednesday, June 10, 2020

Perks of being in a relationship during a quarantine


"To get the full value of joy, you must have someone to divide it with."
This saying stands true during Covid-19 pandemic when we were to stay at home. Many claims that this period resulted in depression, anxiety and psychological trauma, but I want to reveal to you the other side of the story. As I firmly believe that relationships are the key to a healthy, prosperous and happy life.
A relationship has always proved to be a blessing while providing emotional, psychological or physical support. For many people, this crisis turned into a blessing as they got a chance to reframe and rebuild their relationships. Though they faced some grudges initially, a lot of them must have come out with multiple solutions and achieved a positive closure. Many people also survived this time because they had that one person who took the bash for them, else who knows who must have been sitting in a room all frustrated, and having no one in the most vulnerable hours and feeling sorry for self.
Have you realized that this one relationship, has made morning blues fade away, meals more delicious and evening talks more meaningful as this lockdown gave us a chance to be with the person we love. Nothing would have mattered if we weren't comforted while we were afraid to go to sleep fighting fears of this whole unpredicted catastrophe.
Sharing secrets is comforting and dealing with uncertainties of life has become possible, because you have someone who won't judge you. Movies, series and other fun activities are funnier, crazier because you understand each other and your bond is deepening.
It's the best feeling you can ever feel while being with that person.
Human nature always sees negatives over positives but what matters is to focus on the blessings of having your beloved with you.
Else no one can be sure of how plightful life would have been while isolating from the world. It is time that we start to embrace being loved, cared for, and most importantly feeling that we have someone who always has our backs.
It's my request, please stop fighting over petty things; curse each other for unavailability and complaining about disappointments. Start showing gratitude for not doing this all by yourself and appreciate the efforts of others who are doing everything to make it perfect for you.

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